December 31st, 2008

New Year’s Eve Is A Day Of Reflection

With 2008 coming to an end, I want people to comment on how this year went for them. From the highs(visiting RealTalkNY) to the lows. What were some highlights for this year and how did this year compare to others?

Also if you have any new year resolutions, feel free to post them. Everybody is going to have to get on thier grind in 2009 with the recession probably getting worse before it gets better.



32 Responses to “New Year’s Eve Is A Day Of Reflection”

  1. asds Says:

    First =))

  2. 2cents Says:

    Hapy new years folk! be better do better… 1

    for the night though… blame it on the alcohol… ;0)

  3. KADAFFI Says:

    Happy New Year. 2008 has been a transformational year, both good and bad. Firstly it is very refreshing (as a foreigner) to see Obama elected into the white house. As an African who has lived all around the world (currently in Toronto) i know how hard it is for the black guy with the funny name to make it. I guess i have walked away with a renewed sense of hope in this world and america, so i must congratulate you on that. However as fast as i get to enjoy this hope, it is is taken away and we end the year at a really low point in humanity. After 8 months of relative peace in the Gaza Strip, Israel has started bombing Gaza and Hamas keeps launching Rockets into israel, both sides killing innocent people. If only there was a Obama in every nation, who could bring people together like he has done in the USA, and inspire an entire generation positively, this world would be a better place. I pray that 2009 is a progressive year, for black people, indian people, arabs, jews, asians and whatever colour you may be, lets grow in the spirit of humanity. (a little corny but hey) Happy New Year.

    KADAFFI!!!

  4. PiFf Da DoN!! Says:

    EVERYBODY SAYING IT HOW ITS GONNA BE A GREAT NEW YEAR AND HOW 09 GONNA BE DIFFERENT AND HOW ITS GONNA BE BETTER THEN LAST!!..THEN I HAD A CONVERSATION WIT A FEMALE LAST NIGHT AND SHE SAID SHE DOESN’T BELIEVE IN THAT ITS JUST GONNA BE A REGULAR DAY AND SAME MONTHS ALL OVER AGAIN!..I TOLD HER YEAH THATS IF U JUST SITT AROUND AND DO THE SAME THANG U WAS DOING LAST YEAR OR IF NOT NUTHIN AT ALL!..WHAT MAKES THIS YEAR A GOOD IS YEAR IS ALL UP TO YOU!!…YOU GOTTA MAKE THIS YEAR HOW U WANT IT TO BE SO FOR ME IMA GET BACK IN SCHOOL, GET ON MY GRIND HEAVY KEEP TO MYSELF AND FOCUSED ON MY FUTURE AND WITH A BLACK PRESIDENT I KNOW THAT ANYTHINGS POSSIBLE NO MATTER WHAT COLOR YOU ARE…STAY OUT OF NEGATIVITY BOUT TO DROP MY MIXTAPE THIS YEAR AND GET BACK ON MY MUSIC AND PRODUCING AND BEATMAKING SHIT FOLLOW MY DREAMS AND TURNED THEM TO REALITY!!..I TOOK ALOT OF LOSSESS 08′ I LOST MY HERO MY DAD SEPT 4TH 08 A WEEK LATER FEW MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS GOT ARREST FOR MURDER CHARGES THEY CURRENTLY FACING AND AND COUPLE WEEKS AFTER THAT 2 PEOPLE I KNEW FROM AROUND THE WAY 1 GOT MURDERED AND THE OTHER OVERDOSE! SO I APPRECIATE MY LIFE AND I CHERISH EVER BREATH!!…BEFORE MY DAD DIED HE GOT TO LIVE HIS LIFE TO THE FULLEST CAME FROM NUTHIN TO OWNING 14acres OF LAND AND BENTLYS AND PORSCHES SO HE JUST SHOWED ME ITS ONLY 1 LIFE TO LIVE U GET NO SEQUALS LIVE EACH DAY LIKE ITS YA LAST AND IM BRING THAT WITH ME INTO THIS NEW YEAR!!…I WISH EVERYBODY EVEN REALTALK A BLESSED NEWYEAR LIVE LIFE PROCEED PROGRESS!!…..09 WE MADE IT…….HAPPY NEW YEAR

  5. chrisFROMthaDtothapHx
    chrisFROMthaDtothapHx Says:

    I had a great year business wise, I got a raise in pay as well as pushing our startup into become $2,000 a month profit…Personal wise.. I wasted allot of time with the wrong person in a relationship which i completely regret, but it is what it is. Right now, i have my eye on someone im going to find out right away at the beginning of the year if she is down for me or not. I dont want to waste 6 months of my life all over again.
    With that being said.. Barack got me Focus. If anything him being elected for me, has got me thinking like i need to take my life to tha next level which is raising the bar for myself career wise and also seriously starting a family and buying a home with a picket fence.. Real Talk..

    MY RESOLUTION:. become a Microsoft Certified Application Developer and write/deliver/develop 5-10 web applications.

    Happy New Year!

  6. Young Jerz Says:

    Happy New Year People! 08 was bitter sweet from seeing the first black president elected to watching the recession tumbling our economy. Personally the fourth quarter of 08 was full of shit because i got hit with random charges that stand til this day. In 09 will definitely be a change from the swagger to the mental. Think differently and your actions will change as well. As far a being better try this quote “better is not what we do or how we live but better is who we are”. So drink till you fall out and wake up in 09 a better person. Peace and Love. 1

  7. Cocaine joe Says:

    IM TIRED OF PEOPLE THAT SAY ITS A RECESSION ,ITS ONLY A RECESSION FOR PEOPLE THATS PAYING TAXES ,AINT NO RECESSION WITH THE STREET NIGG*S,I MEAN AINT NO RECESSION WITH ME ,I HAD A 92 HONDA CIVIC IN 07/08 TILL LAST 3 MONTH I BOUGHT A BMW 750 LI ,SO U KNOW TO EVERYBODY AROUND THE WORLD ,U BETTER GET THAT CAKE, I DONT HATE ON ANYBODY I WANT EVERYBODY THE GET THEIR DOUGH ,BUT I LIKE TO BE HATED ON LOL , I HOLLA

  8. nik Says:

    ‘08 was a transformational year like KADAFFI said, both good and bad, but all in all I came out stronger in ways I never thought of.

    I made my New Year’s Resolution back in October. I made the resolution to stop waiting to January 1st to start resolving things that can begin ASAP.

  9. FrontTailPenis Says:

    Its been a great year even though it doesn’t feel like it. After a year of fuckin up, I came back strong str8 out da gate and raped every exam in January . definitely some lil missteps academically but then agen was it really? I feel pretty sharp on the business side of things and besides the lil adversities still ended up rapin everything this year ending.
    Polaco came thru. twas a very… I dnt even know what to call that. We stole this niggaz car and floored the shit every str8 road we came on lmao. Now we orderin some Chinese I leave this in the car only for him to start flippin switches lmao dumfuck. Im upstairs arguing with this bitch tellin me she didn’t get our order. suddenly an alarm goes off, I just knew he was doin some dumb shit lol *smh* head down im like fuck this I aint got papers or nuttin and left my driver’s license. Dat whole thing was big but we got away wit it so clean that I it doesn’t even stand out in my mind. got me wantin to learn Spanish and shit tho, which I will soon enuff.
    Met a lot of pretty girls this year, dat tho definitely got my mind right. Telling me most of them are dumbdumbz *smh* well… ok… in a different term; “you cant judge a book by its cover”(except me of course lmao). This one dumbdumb I dnt kno.. I think i really like her. she’s weird as fuck tho but she kinda had me in her world for a minute. Theres so many beautiful girls out there, everybody likes pretty but im slowly startin to value wats on the inside even more. Lack of self confidence for one turns me off but ironically it also attracts me. Too much of anything is bad the old folks wud say.
    I’ve been in 2 police chases with these taxi men, been fucked over meanin dropped half way, nigga pulled a Crocodile Dundee knife *smh* some crazy shit man. It might sound fucked up but I hate seeing poor; its uninspiring and I cant picture myself in that situation dat wud be suicide. Went to 2 parties this whole year, 3 if you count new years last year. Most of the better girls hardly party anyway. Was a very productive move imo, I got more important shit to deal with and focus on. I cant get that fuckin beach house outa my head im no where near it but it feels like I cud almost touch it, im hungry niggaz. my trip was half fun I didn’t like ATL much. In o8 I see a rise of criminals and thugs using youtube lol shits kinda funny lol.
    I give this year a 6.5 outa 10, in o9 I dnt expect academics to be a problem I bought several different text books this Christmas I intend on reading. I dnt intend on spending a dime b4 june I got a ridiculous goal to reach lmao and im not sure wat summer looks like yet. Gotta set up a hustle for next September. Im also hopin to cuff a fine lady next year too, im aimin for a 10 out of 10 for 09. Happy new year bitches!!! GOOD LUCK!!!DREAM BIG!!!!

  10. Chicagorilla Says:

    happy new new yearz 2 errbody yo drink it up smoke it up wateva u do jus live ur life 2 da fullest n neva stop grindin yo!!!! 1

  11. Safe Says:

    i check RTNY everyday, i’ll continue do dat !!!

  12. Safe Says:

    wish everybody the best for the new year !!!

  13. Tee Says:

    Happy New Year RealtalkNY & Realtalkers…

    My new years resolutions are to ace grad school in ‘09.

    Meet some nice guys (broke up with my shorty 3 days ago, found out he was engaged with a baby on the way…Great! Merry Xmas to me).

    Step my energy up. I can get really relaxed, especially when the weather is cold.

    Continue to focus on current events.

    Making our new president happy and encouraging my fellow people to do the same by being positive and responsible human beings.

    Not allowing this recession to affect my mental (because its hitting me, bump that I’m keeping it real)

    Oh, and to only hit up realtalkNY.net ONCE a day (its addictive I tell ya).

    My people, we comment on things (bafoonery and serious topics) but we REALLY have to do better in ‘09. Sometimes the stuff I see on the streets, in the clubs and on the Net makes me dizzy. Barack reports to work in 3 weeks. Let’s stand with him.

    Whatever you do tonight, please be safe and don’t end up on the front page of the newspaper tomorrow morning.

    Peace

    Keep up the good work Nigel.

  14. jizz Says:

    2008 was the worst year that i can remember for me personally. Ive had far too much bad shit happen to me this year- but next year is looking up- Im totally drama free on my own and about to make some big moves in 09′

  15. FlipStar Says:

    HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL MY BRETHRENS AND SISTHRENS!

    2008 wasnt THAT bad, come to think of it.

    My brother daughter was born. EPIC

    Obama was elected. EPIC

    My daughter FINALLY understands the meaning of XMAS at the tender age of 3. EPIC

    I got a raise earlier this month. EPIC

    My fam is healthy. ULTIMATE EPICNESS

    Young’n’s dying all over the streets of America (some close to home) at the hands of speeding bullets. UN-EPIC.

    My fellow humans, I THINK THIS YEAR WE NEED TO REALLY START THINKING AHEAD AND THINK LIKE MEN AND WOMEN rather than BOYS AND GIRLS.

    All those of us 18 and up, PLEASE, let’s smarten up. Leave the gunplay for THRILLERS and DRAMAS.

    Obama HAS SHOWN ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE.

    I know that violence WILL NEVER END.

    But we HAVE TO COME TOGETHER, ESPECIALLY AS BLACK FOLKS, to DO ALL WE CAN TO MINIMIZE THE UN-NECESSARY, TRIVIAL BULLSHIT WE’RE FED AND ENDORSE.

    HOPE 09 IS AN EVEN BETTER YEAR FILLED WITH PROMISE, HOPE AND PROSPERITY.

    LONG LIVE REALTALKNY!

  16. WHITE BOY CHICAGO.....................LOL Says:

    Every day is a new day every mouth is a new mouth and every year is a new year until then. Smoke ya some weed drink all day party all night fuck bitches and get your dick wet cuz its all about havin fun. Oh and as far as havin a new years resolution well fuck a new years resolution i ain’t got no time to think about that shit. My mind will be made once new years is over which will be next year for now have a happy mothafuckin happy new year bitches…smh at myself lol

  17. WHITE BOY CHICAGO.....................LOL Says:

    ^^^^Oh and don’t forget to wear a condom..lol seriouslly

  18. OFFICER RICK LEONARD ROSS
    OFFICER RICK LEONARD ROSS Says:

    I’M GOING TO SHAKE UP THE HIP HOP GENRE IN 2009,WISH ME LUCK

  19. E.(France) Says:

    smoke more, drink more.

  20. sym007
    sym007 Says:

    ^^^ haha 10-4

  21. Hi Hater! Says:

    Money Is The Motivation

    So I’ll Keep On Getting Mine!! Till I Hit The Jackpot

  22. WestCoast Says:

    fuck a recession. its going to be a new year. theres been alot of beef and shit like that but happy fuckin new year everyone and stop the hatin everyone. we all family. OBAMA 09

  23. F.D.I.A Says:

    Thank god 4 08′ but I hope 09′ brings me more blessings! I’d like to thank REALTALKNY 4 this platform to allow me to vent alongside of my peers. Picked up a really good job in 08′. Ran through one car, now I’m on my 2nd for the year. Prolly made the most $ this year that I ever did. Ran thru several gurls, 2 girlfreinds and goin into 09′ as a single man. Currently am feeling stressed the F out contemplating what the next move is gonna be. Sometimes job security is not appealing enough for the young and gifted. I wanna fly in 09′ and I don’t mean literally. I was blessed to witness Obama and Change this year. All things are possible for a black man in this country….go get it!. I gotta get way fresher in 09′ I wanna pop more tags and bras. If I could have one wish granted I’d wish that I’d find my calling in life., cuz this aint it baby. I’m thankful though , I trully have been blessed. Health, peace and serenity for me you and yours for the New years! Damn I hope things get better b4 they get worse.

  24. jad Says:

    2008 now comes to an end. the best of 08 was obama.

  25. jermzz Says:

    one of the bigest lows of realtalkny was they did the rise and fall of G-unit i was not feeling that at all

  26. musicalnote1986 Says:

    this year wasnt bad at all,
    i got to finish college,
    i got an internship @ bad boy entertainment, BLUE FLAME!

    for 09 its basically tryna get a job in my field
    get a new hobby either create a blog site or start producing music,
    i wont let this recession stress me
    i need to find love during the 09

    earn money save money

  27. 2cents Says:

    Fellas stop tryin to look like a killer if you ain’t killin sh!t and females stop tryin to look like a slut if you ain’t fckin! Whats really the point!?

    Be responsible/accountable in ‘09!

  28. Cjs Says:

    I was thinking about my New Year resolution, what could it be I thought? Stop eating so much sugar? being more patient? Wouldn’t be nice if everyone made their resolution for 2009 not so much about themselves but for all. So I decided that this New Year resolution for me is to reach out more to others, help those that need it and to those who don’t. I hope that 2009 is the year that people start making changes that impact the world.

    I also thought would’nt it be nice to start a chain and have everyone write there own resolution for the world and see how many we can get by midnight. Write down your resolution and put it in your pocket to remind yourself of the changes you hope for. If we all do this, then by 2010 this world may be a much kinder and beautiful place. Just think about how some of the smallest things we do, a simple smile to a stranger or a helping hand to someone, how that impacts that person. Don’t we all have a memory of a kind gesture from a stranger? Anyways please pass this along and see what comes of it. Again i wish everyone a very happy, healthy and peaceful New Year

  29. 2cents Says:

    @ CJ… check this out!

    Posted by Nik # 8 “I made my New Year’s Resolution back in October. I made the resolution to stop waiting to January 1st to start resolving things that can begin ASAP.”

    If its broke fix it immediiately…

  30. bews Says:

    Once again a new year

    much love to RealtalkNY, runnin the bloggin game.

    I officially start training MMA, jiujitsu, muy thai next week. Goin to the top and look to get in the octagon ASAP. Ego was checked at the door and now I’m just lookin to build on my athleticism and heart.

    Expect big things from Bews in 2009 and so forth. Takin the MMA world by storm. God bless

  31. FrontTailPenis Says:

    i ringed in the new year by watchin gantz, lol. o7 i was on the my way to party when o8 came in.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D8kttjWWphQ

    hApPy NeW yEaR bItChEs!!!

  32. CheezyDoDo Says:

    My highlights

    weezy dominating hip hop,barack obama being president and Me going to summer jam thanks to Nigel,I had a great time

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