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August 30, 2008

Are People Brainwashed To Believe, “The Good Life,” Is Based On Material Goods?

The problem nowadays is that we live in such a materialistic world. So many people look at money as the key to happiness. You have regular cats out there with regular jobs and everything that have so many unrealistic dreams that in the end makes them feel miserable, because they don’t have what they’ve been brainwashed to believe a man is supposed to have in order to “have a good life”.
-Hey Ya

Thoughts?

39 Comments so far

1.
MAS wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 4:23 am

money is deff needed to survive in this world, but it aint everything. money dosent always gurantee happness, but who dosent wanna be rich?

…mo money mo problems

2.
Timmy wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 4:30 am

yup! people are definately brainwashed to think that the good life is all bout material goods. i have found God!

3.
Rhe wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 4:53 am

From my own personal situation, money is the only way forward in this world. I dont care what anyone says, if you dont think so, try struggling, try not having one penny, try being unemployed etc. and tell me that money aint important. The people that say mo money more problems are the ones WITH money. I dont know what my future holds but I know that money is the only way out money is the only way to have a good life. You cant be broke and having a good life. There may still be good THINGS in your life but it aint the same case.

NO MONEY = MORE PROBLEMS!

4.
e wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 5:41 am

first off money isnt everything but i think the best things in life are for free thats having family and good friends some of my best times have been when i was with family or friends broke as hell it def. makes life sweeter to be set financailly but that doesnt make life great ask kanye

5.
HD wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 6:12 am

It’s a rich mans world.

6.
anon wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 7:15 am

if we lived in a society that didnt have money then we’d be trading fur, liquor, wood, gold, food etc.
money just makes things easier
with money, our civilization is able to evolve (for better or worse)
if 99% of the world were saints or buddhist monks, we’d all be blissful but we wouldnt have anyone taking time to make ferraris and ipods
make sense? real talk.

7.
Sweet Tooth wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 9:11 am

Pray those types of people will grow beyond those mentalities because its not about riches and bitches, its about being wealthy & healthy, mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally, you know, mind, body, soul & spirit… If you need money to make you, you will never have enough, get to know yourself well enough that you know that & your on the right track & everything will fall in to place, just ask Mase. Wisdom is more precious than jewels, its all about being real, not a dollar bill!

8.
datVAhead23
datVAhead23 wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 9:45 am

I agree with #5.

But it depends what type of money you have. If you dead broke, meaning like you dont have a job, no hustle, …well yea life will be miserable. But if your somewhat living pay-check to paycheck, then your JUST gettin by. lifes not that bad cause your making it.

Its a quote from Jay-z. He mentioned, that he has all the money, the cars, traveled across the world, the houses, had all the bitches, .sooo Now what??????? He said is this what success is all about?? A bunch of niggas acting like bithes with big mouths. He had more fun being broke.

but ask yourself this…how does the materislic things justify your character or your well being. ok you driving around in a Range Rover, and you got a sweet bachelor pad, and alil money. But you can still be an ass-hole. Or you can still be dumb. you can still be emotional disturb. Money is not everything. Fuck all that. Just enjoy life, its short!

9.
OFFICER RICK LEONARD ROSS wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 9:52 am

DEFINE AN ”UNREALISTIC DREAM”.

10.
FlipStar wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 10:02 am

Well

Money is NOT

11.
FlipStar wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 10:07 am

well,

money is NOT everything.

Like some of you said, having family and friends close by is always a blessing. They make your life whole on some important levels.

HOWEVER, indeed, being broke does not render life pleasant.

Even living paycheck to paycheck (i.e. ME), is not fun. It kind of shapes your frame of mind to believe that we are working to live. And I dont wanna be “that” individual.

I do NOT want to work just to live. Just to pay bills and that’s it.

And I CERTAINLY do NOT want the same for my daughter.

I’m not looking to be rich.

Just relatively wealthy. Just well. Dig it?

I want to be able to pay off my bills every month on time and still have a decent amount of money after paying all of my “obligations” .

No need for a ridiculous amount of cars, a mansion, etc.

Just a nice crib, one decent vehicule and a proper (and growing) savings account.

God bless.

12.
god complex wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 10:35 am

Money won’t make you happy.. BUt it will make ur life hella easier and give u more self-confidence and leverage in achieving what u wanna do in life..

13.
SFYungChris
SFYungChris wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 10:48 am

I don’t think people are necessarily “brainwashed” to get these material things but they just want to satisfy their “cravings” for the latest in fashion and technology. They’re exposed to this materialistic world it’s just that some people don’t have the right job or take the right approach towards these materialistic goals. Just my opinion.

14.
Detroit P wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 10:48 am

ummmm….Why are yall only looking at this article as either having money or being broke…cus if thats what you took out of it then you missed the point….the article isnt saying that people should live their lives broke and still be happy….its sayin that alot of people with regular jobs who make average money, don’t think that they are successful because they’ve been brainwashed into thinking that driving a bentley defines success…so they get caught up in chasing money to validate themselves, when they really should be trying to establish strong relationships with people and being happy doing what you like to do….everybody wants to be millionaires, cus they feel like if they can’t excessively spend money they haven’t made it

15.
SFYungChris
SFYungChris wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 10:58 am

Well, I do believe that plenty of people pursue that lifestyle just to fit in that materialistic culture. All I gotta say for that is just be yourself. People try to rush through their lives tryin to fit in and before you know it they’re already fillin out their will lol nah im playin’ but just do you and stay on your grind and all of that will come.

16.
jaynyc4life wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 11:37 am

Well u can look at it as brainwashed but it’s not just that. People use materialistic things to determine a good life because of all the problems and struggles they have already. So achieving things lot that seems great to u cause it’s happinness from always being broke. Not being able to have shit. Can’t pay ya bills etc etc. And family and friends is good like someone mentioned. But even your lack of money and success can often get u looked down upon by family. The ones who usually enjoy the family and friend thing the most are the ones who have a certain bit of success because they can enjoy there time together and do alot of good things together

17.
we stone wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 12:29 pm

Go watch Fight Club.

18.
cocoa
cocoa wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 12:32 pm

To make it simple ! In this world MONEY IS GOD ! If you die tomorrow is the money coming with you ? MONEY IS GOD ! MONEY has currupted the minds of men ! Money has ruined peoples faith in politricks. MONEY is a spell that has been placed on your minds as the only way of survival. If a pandemic hit the world and money was no longer a priority ! I mean no shops, shopping outlets ect Then would money still be a priority ? You would only need to survive in cirtain situations. MONEY HAS RUINED GOD’S WORLD ! MONEY IS YOUR GOD ! YOU WORSHIP MONEY BEFORE YOUR CREATOR ! Mankind is in grave danger ! Wake up !

19.
973 wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 12:33 pm

girls and the econmy got sumthin 2 do with that

20.
jad wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 12:45 pm

i dont think materials bring happiness. to live a good life is just being happy. having a family that loves u and friends that care bout u. money comes and goes.

21.
EmM HoLLa wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 12:46 pm

Broke people say money aint everything.. Rich people say money aint a thing…. HoLLa…

22.
?????jay-dub ???? wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 12:50 pm

lol at everyone on hear preachin… dam… some good points though…if your misarable when your broke…gonna the same when your rich… if you can find a way to be happy when things are bad… when you make it…gonna be sooooo much sweeter!!!! oh i dont belive in that more money more problems bullshit… not totally anyway, yeah if you got money and niggas see you flashin tryn to stunt and shit…. yeah you gonna have more problems!!!

@ sweet tooth….. real shit right here…. says it all!!!

Pray those types of people will grow beyond those mentalities because its not about riches and bitches, its about being wealthy & healthy, mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally, you know, mind, body, soul & spirit…

23.
cocoa
cocoa wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 12:57 pm

To make it simple ! In this world MONEY IS GOD ! If you die tomorrow is the money coming with you ? MONEY IS GOD ! MONEY has currupted the minds of men ! Money has ruined peoples faith in politricks. MONEY is a spell that has been placed on your minds as the only way of survival. If a pandemic hit the world and money was no longer a priority ! I mean no shops, shopping outlets ect Then would money still be a priority ? You would only need to survive in cirtain situations. MONEY HAS RUINED GOD’S WORLD ! MONEY IS YOUR GOD ! YOU WORSHIP MONEY BEFORE YOUR CREATOR ! Mankind is in grave danger ! Wake up ! No preaching….. Straight fact….. Holla !

24.
cocoa
cocoa wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 12:59 pm

Number 21 are you rich ?

25.
Superman - Hip Hop Fan wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 1:30 pm

“if you can find a way to be happy when things are bad… when you make it…gonna be sooooo much sweeter!!!! ”

^^ So simple yet so true. Not that the rest of yall didn’t make wonderful points, you all did. But that right there stuck with me.

26.
Superman - Hip Hop Fan wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 1:30 pm

and what is that way to be happy? God, family, friends, people you love.

27.
Hey Ya wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 2:33 pm

@Detroit P

Great post! That’s EXACTLY what I meant. Some cats up in here missed the point though.

28.
Chris Rock wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 2:46 pm

Wow…how long did it take them to figure this out?!
This is very true. People are brainwashed into thinking that having shit will make you happy. The succesful guy always has a lot of shit (money, cars, girls, etc). They show you this in movies, tv shows, etc for your whole life. That’s called BRAINWASHING!!!

#16…stop hangin out with whoever you’re hangin out with. You don’t need lots of shit or aq lot of money to be happy. If your family and friends treat you better or have a better time with according to how succesful you are, you’re in trouble.

29.
Chris Rock wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 2:48 pm

# 6, what the hell are you talkin about?!?!

I’m not even gonna finish reading all the comments….

30.
futsolejier wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 3:34 pm

YES. alot of people are shallow and believe in the bull#$it they see on tv. and when a regular person that does work a 9 to 5 dont really make alot of money it makes things hard for them. money aint everything, but its hard if you aint comfortable.

31.
Timmy wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 3:46 pm

money is not everything, and believe is definately the root too evil. like, i will like to be able to pay all my bills and all that, and give peeps money but not to be over rich. I dnt know what God has in plan for me though.

but im just lookin to get closer to God because if i die tomoro, God forbbid, i just want to make it to heaven. money is not everything.

32.
bananananana wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 5:48 pm

Has anyone seen that show on Mtv called Exiled?
Thats some real sht.

33.
Tonythetiger wrote on August 30th, 2008 at 9:29 pm

Money is a lot of things to a lot of people. Money to you might mean cars, fancy homes, big job, fast life. Money can also mean security and easy living.

I like how everyone’s getting religious on this post, keep it up. There’s only one thing promised to us in this life and its important we stay focused.

34.
RealTalk wrote on August 31st, 2008 at 6:40 am

Blu - Show me the good life

Thats real talk.

35.
nik wrote on August 31st, 2008 at 10:27 am

Cosign @ Detroit P

36.
word wrote on August 31st, 2008 at 7:01 pm

the real question is why are there some people with personal wealth of multi BILLIONS while others work 50+ hours a week and can barely provide for their family. we need to get with the program and step our thinking way the fuck up.

37.
Easy-E
Easy-E wrote on September 1st, 2008 at 11:54 am

Hell yea people are brainwashed

I’m black, got an opportunity to get an education, have a loving family…..the good life

38.
Taigenz wrote on September 1st, 2008 at 5:00 pm

” The desire for money, is the root of all evil
For a grand, a brothah gets murked by his own people ”

Thats all I Gotta say

39.
Mel wrote on September 5th, 2008 at 1:12 pm

Money makes everything better….stop faking!

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