April 15th, 2007
Tell Em Why You Mad: Women’s Preferences In The Club
From One Of RealTalkNY’s readers:
I’m chilling, dancing with this girl for a couple hours, getting real intimate and such. End of the night comes and this girl would rather be with some dude who looks more like a girl than she does. Long hair, girlish figure, I think he even had eyeliner. Now, I’m not about to ditch my hoodies and Timbs to try and go after shorty looking like a female. This “dude looks like a lady” shit is starting to be a big problem and same goes for the tight clothes wearing hipster kids. I’m not understanding this trend and I am not about to start wearing tight jeans. Do girls really dig this shit?
Hmm, some will say it’s time for you step your game up, while other may feel women are crazy. Maybe it is time for you hit up some different clubs and see what the scene is like. I think woman go through phases, they will like thugs for a while, than cat’s like prince, and who knows what is next. I don’t know how old you are, but after a while you need to put the Timbs and hoodies down once in a while and get some more mature gear. The simple truth is, when your in a club your judged completely off of looks. So I say change the clubs you go to and make some adjustments.
Thoughts??? (I want to hear what woman have to say)
Suggestion Box
April 15th, 2007 at 5:20 pm
Now that I’m older (23) I’m attracted to men who aren’t afraid to wear tighter jeans and rock a different style. I just moved to Harlem and was surprised at first cause alot of guys were looking suspect to me but once I realized they are 100 % straight but have no need to dress like they did a decade ago to feel or pretend or show their thug side I found it extremely SEXY!
Prince is just a sexy muthafucka!!! And no one can do the Prince thing. Or the Andre 3000 thing (hes FINE but thats alittle too much for someone around the way) but the whole baggy jeans, timbs, xxxl shirts is played out. How long cats been wearing that same old shit?! Of course women are more attracted to men who are doing something different. Ladies love eye candy just as much as men. But in the end DO YOU. If tighter jeans isnt you then keep bringing the same ole same ole…someone will always appreciate it but not me. I appreciated it in the 90’s its 2007…catch up!
April 15th, 2007 at 5:57 pm
Do you, I agree. Too much fakeness in the world today.
April 15th, 2007 at 6:45 pm
Well, as a dude that doesnt wear baggy shit I figured I’d give my opinion on this.
Alot of dudes just switched their style up recently, as more and more stars starting wearing this european/rock culture clothing.
And alot of those dudes arent doing it right.
So the dudes that have been doing it for a while, look better at it…. you kno what I mean??
And the chicks see that too.
They kno who the bandwagon niggas are; The niggas that do stuff just because somebody else does it, fashion wise.
But its still chicks out there that want the niggas that dress the same no matter what.
So I guess those should be the type of clubs you go to; the clubs with those type of chicks.
But when you get over 21, most chicks dont wanna see there dude in 4xl shirts and extra baggy jeans.
So pretty much around that age you dont have much of a choice if you want to attract some quality chicks.
The highest quality chicks are at the clubs where no baggy shit is allowed…. from my experience… cause I go to both type of clubs.
So I suggest to switch your game up fellas.
You dont have to switch designers yet, but atleast switch to clothes that actually fit.
Your grown, your not gonna outgrow your clothes anymore, so buy the right size.
Switch it up.
Well….if you want some chicks, I suggest thats what you do.
And when niggas say “tight” jeans, they are really just talking about jeans that fit. They are tight in those guys opinion because they are not hanging off their ass.
April 16th, 2007 at 6:10 am
I am from NYC and i see alot of guys rocking the tight look now….i mean i know sometimes you need to have a nice pair of jeans that fit nice on you but most of yall are takin it out of hand….the jeans they are wearing be sooo tight im suprised they can breath and mos of them are hangin off their asses too so i dont know i mean me personally i just like to feel comfortable and when i cant sit and feel comfortable because i barely have any room to move in my jeans…thats not comfortable…most of these guys are just copyin wat they see…its not about being grown and mature to me because to me all they are doin is seeing someone else do it so they do it…its not original and now all of them look the same so…
April 16th, 2007 at 6:37 am
Prince is a fuckin FAGGOT its bitches like that 23 year old ho who make dudes go crazy.fuck u bitch, bitches r why cats r in jail for life term sentences becuz stupid ho’s wanna fuck everyone on the block manfuck bitches especially them gross fat white bitches who got chipped teeth from all the balck dick that hit ther smilesss
April 16th, 2007 at 6:37 pm
” WACK wrote ”
^Wack is a good name for you. It fits you perfectly.
” becuz stupid ho’s wanna fuck everyone on the block ”
^everyone on the block probally looks like you and thats why I don’t fuk with everyone on the block and thats what this topic is about..ppl thinkin and dressin outside the box.
” fuck u bitch”
You sound mad. Tell em why u mad!?
Dat Dude wrote ..
“the jeans they are wearing be sooo tight im suprised they can breath and mos of them are hangin off their asses”
^women wear tight jeans and we breathe just fine. obviously your ASSUMING shit is uncomfortable but since you never wore them how would u know?!. BUT if they were tight on the ass then yes they might be uncomfortable for a guy and the “hanging off their asses”..Guys with baggy jeans have them hanging off their asses too so whats your point?
I like it and so do ALOT of other women and thats all that matters to me and to the guys who are rocking “tight” shit. So wack you can stay wack and stay talking about “gross fat white bitches ” …why did u even bring them up? No one cares! Guys wearing tight jeans have no need for “gross fat white bitches ” But obviously YOU do cause you giving them the time of day in a damn blog
smh @ wack muthafuckas! especially wack muthafuckas dressing like cats dressed 10 yrs ago and like 15 yrs old still dress