Hip Hop Stars Rather Take A Bullet Then Get Married
I had to make this post after hearing about T.I. breaking up with his baby mother, Tiny, who is about to have another baby for him(Source). It seemed like everyone was waiting for them to breakup, due to people feeling Tiny wasn’t the typical beauty they would expect T.I. to be with. I guess for T.I., being 26 and only gaining in popularity, settling down wasn’t looking to tempting. I can’t blame him, 26 is too young and he has too much booty being thrown at him. But damn, guys need to stop impregnating woman they know they not going marry, especially doing it more than once.
It seems a lot of Hip Hop artist have trouble jumping the broom, even when they get older. Jay-Z at age 37 has no kids and still isn’t hitched. How you worth over 300 million and have no kids?(Memphis Bleek don’t count) Diddy, also 37, has four kids in total. Three of them with Kim Porter, but he admits he is still tempted by woman(Source). The lady just dropped your twins and you still can’t get her a ring? Lets not even talk about Snoop, he got too many hoes around 24/7 to be married.
From entertainers making millions, to broke dudes on the block, stop knocking up these woman if your not going to marry them. Too many kids are going wild out there because they have no father and no family structure. Plus yall know you don’t want to get hit up for child support. Women please wake up, stop procreating with dudes that will not settle down with you. I think some woman do it in hopes it will change the guy, sorry ladies it won’t work. If your doing it to get money from someone caking, well that’s your business, I can’t knock the hustle(50’s Baby Mom Balling). And lastly, I think a lot of people get caught up in the bachelor life style, and miss out on positives of having a family. Just realize there are more meaningful things out there, you can’t be stuck in high school mode forever.
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March 20th, 2007 at 3:21 am
Jay and Bee shouldn’t even be in the same group as these other two because I think the only reason Jay and Bee aren’t married is because Beyonce is about her business right now. I know for a fact they are engaged. But these other two ain’t doing nothing but living off their men and poppong oit kids for security. but that’s just my opinion.In a recent interview the reporter asked Beyonce was she married,single or engaged and her answer was “I am not single but I’m not married.
March 20th, 2007 at 3:56 am
Good effing post…and it can be expanded to ‘celebs would rather take a bullet than get married’…most celebrity relationships are like fads…they change ‘em like they change hairstyles or cars.
March 20th, 2007 at 6:18 am
wow, thats some real talk right there. I feel the same way. High school is only supposed to be 4 years people. At some point you have to grow up.
March 20th, 2007 at 7:01 am
(rounds of applauds) I’ma play devil’s advocate for a minute tho. If you notice, majority of these cats didn’t grow up with fathers, and majority of their friends ain’t have a father in the home, so all they know is what their fathers did…procreate and bounce. So, now you have a cycle, and the sons of these rappers are gonna be the same way unfortunately. Props to Ja Rule, Fat Joe, even Eminem (for trying). Man…it’s so tempting to insert a Bill Cosby line here, but that would open up a whole new can of worms.
March 20th, 2007 at 7:09 am
i can relate with the celeb dudes.
(not the celeb and rich part) but the not settling down part.
if you the type of dude that is used to doin wateva u want, and gettin the baddest chicks, settling down is gonna be like prison to you.
i always have the thought that if i wife a chick, ima be mad as hell if i see another chick that look way better than her.
and plus, why buy the cow if u gettin the milk for free… nawmean.
March 20th, 2007 at 7:27 am
“why buy the cow if u gettin the milk for free”
…and that is the dilemma posed by this situation.
March 20th, 2007 at 9:03 am
T.I will get back with her watch, he does this shit whenever his CD is about to come out, remember the on/off thing with the cd KING?
March 20th, 2007 at 9:05 am
first time commenting….I haved like this site since a friend put me on. I have to say..this is some real talk and I definatly applaud the post…def on some grown man vibe.
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March 20th, 2007 at 9:12 am
its because of how much of a slut/whore women are nowadays(which is like 90 percent of women). they mess it up for the good women who want to get married and have a family.
March 20th, 2007 at 9:20 am
I Feel That’s the truth because there are too many single mothers.
But If You Know That there is no way in hell that you and the momma will be together then at least be a big role in there lives(like 50)
March 20th, 2007 at 10:25 am
good post. everyone wants to be something, turns out they end up lowering themselves in the future.
March 20th, 2007 at 11:15 am
YALL CANT BLAME T.I TINY KNEW HOW HE WAS SO Y WOULD U EXPECT FOR HIM TO SETTLE DOWN AND GET MARRIED WHEN HES LIVING THE LIFE MY PROBLEM IS EVERYBODY ALWAYS BLAMIND THE MEN WOMEN KNOW WHAT THEY BE DOING THINKING BECAUSE THEY HAVE SOMEONES KID THERE GOING TO STAY TOGETHER WHEN IT DOSENT WORK THAT WAY LIKE KIM PORTER SHE KNEW DIDDY WAS A HOE BEFORE SHE HAD THEM TWINS BY HIM IN THE END IF A PERSON DOSENT WANT TO BE WITH ONLY ONE PERSON THAN THEY WONT
March 20th, 2007 at 1:31 pm
FUCK THAT DIDDY AND RICH COMPANY DONT GET MARRIED………YOU HAVE 300+ MILLION AND YOU GOIN TO BE SURROUNDED BY WOMEN THAT NOT A GOOD PLACE TO BE IN YOUR LIFE FOR MARRIAGE. WHEN YOUR WIFE GETS MAD OR JUST BORED THAT 50% GOIN LOOK EVERY GOOD PLUS CHILD SUPPORT ON TOP OF THAT SHE GUNNA BE RICHER THAN YOU!!!!!!!……….BUT REGULAR DUDES GET MARRIED CUZ THATS JUST IRRESPONSIBLE TO KNOCK UP THESE WOMEN. RICH KIDS KNOW THEY DAD AND ARE STRAIGHT FINICALLY. WE NOT RICH
DIVORCE FOR DIDDY WITHOUT A PRENUP IS 150+ MILLION PLUS 30,000 A MONTH IN CHILD SUPPORT LOL THATS “LUDACRIS”!!!!!!!
March 20th, 2007 at 2:16 pm
kim porter looks so sexy in that pic omg !
March 20th, 2007 at 3:17 pm
When does it end ? I mean AIDS is killing us off like no other 50 % of black women are HIV positive
@ T BABY YOU SAID WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE COW FOR FREE ?? LOVE,FAMILY,IS MORE THEN JUST SEX
BUT YOU KEEP GETTING YOUR COWS FOR FREE I PRAY YOU DONT CATCH ANYTHING WHILE MILKIN
March 20th, 2007 at 3:42 pm
i wouldn’t add jay and bee to that group…..i actually believe that he’s ready to get married cause i’ve heard him say it in a couple of interviews that kids and marriage were next on his agenda. i think the problem is bee cause she’s on top right now. i still think they’ll make it to the alter!!
March 20th, 2007 at 4:24 pm
damn t.i. baby momma must be hella tiny by lookin at dat pic of em side by side
March 20th, 2007 at 8:43 pm
JAY-Z HAS A KID OKAY?
March 20th, 2007 at 8:53 pm
yeah i thought jay-z said something about a daughter in one of his songs…..
why buy the cow when u can get the milk for free? LOL he said that just to piss off all the chicks but dats how a lotta niggas think though. o boy just said the shit. i feel like why get married when bitches cheat just as much as guys do? if i marry a bitch and come home and she fuckin somebody, dey both praly gon die. i may as well not even put myself in that situation
March 20th, 2007 at 8:58 pm
wild seeds can’t grow proper yall take care of you and yours
March 20th, 2007 at 9:44 pm
Typical of Black Men………………
March 20th, 2007 at 10:11 pm
speak on it! shit is hot what you saying! man lookin at games wifey i was like she look kinda hurt..but on this subject lovin what you wrote!
March 20th, 2007 at 10:38 pm
I agree! See, it’s hard for a man when he is surrounded by beauties 24-7! Gold diggers ( models, could be models) are on them! I don’t know if I could date a rapper (or any high maintenance celeb). I’d be worry because when their is fame and money -temptation rates are higher. Now, non celeb men..if your man is hella sexy and women are at his feet that to can be hell.! He has to really want to be with you and say he’d done with the hoes now he wants a real lady. I see alot girls here with babies and unmarried. One guy I know has like 2 kids and still chasing tail here..lol sad ya know>? Glad I’m single!
March 20th, 2007 at 10:42 pm
I agree! See, it’s hard for a man when he is surrounded by beauties 24-7! Gold diggers ( models, could be models) are on them! I don’t know if I could date a rapper (or any high maintenance celeb). I’d be worry because when there is fame and money – temptation rates are higher. Now, non celeb men..if your man is hella sexy and women are at his feet that to can be hell.! He has to really want to be with you and say he’s done with the hoes now and he wants a real lady. I see a lot girls here with babies and unmarried. One guy I know has like 2 kids and still chasing tail here..lol sad ya know…? Glad I’m single!
Sorry few typo erros~~
March 20th, 2007 at 11:23 pm
rather take a bullet??? what the fuck, i know u werent bein serious wit that title but i think u take that shit too much for granted bro
March 21st, 2007 at 7:36 pm
iono bout diddy he old, and jay too…
but niggas in the twenties dont need to be cuffed up..
its too much life to live out here.
and trust me, you cant live the same life married like u can single, and im not talkin bout fuckin all types of bitches.
its a time to chill out and all that.
but not if ima multimillionare in my mid twenties.
ima ride until the wheels fall off and then settle down.
but niggas need to stop raw doggin these chicks though.
and they wont have to worry about it.
and chicks need to stop trappin niggas.
March 23rd, 2007 at 2:07 pm
Jay said he got “Demons in his past so he got daughters on the way, and if the prophesy is right, then the child should have to pay…” It’s off of Beach Chair, and he was just talking about how his future kids might have to pay for his wrongdoings… But ANYWAY… I really commend u for posting this on here, our black men need to man up, AND our black women need to WISE UP and have some dignity and class. A lot of people try to blame it all on the guyz, but I GUARANTEE YOU that if we as black women decide to clean ourselves up and demand more from the men we associate ourselves with, this problem has no choice but to cease. We have to take the first step cuz like it or not, the dudes r gonna go as far as we let them…
March 23rd, 2007 at 2:18 pm
And u guyz r right, the rest of those guyz are DEFINITELY not in the same league as B and Jay… They are in a serious relationship… AND on top of that, Jay is 38, a GOD in the music world, CEO, and all of that, and has no kids… DEM GROUPIE GIRLZ BE FALSE ACCUSIN’!! That’s a classy dude right there, Jay and B are perfect for each other. U can’t get any better. On either side.
March 25th, 2007 at 10:48 am
NUFF RESPECT ON DAT SHYTT! J IS STILL IN DASH’S POCKET WHILE DIDDY FUCKED SHYNE OUT OF FREEDOM! PEOPLE NEED TO STOP LOOKING AT THESE NIGGAZ AND LOOK AT THE YOUNG AND UP IN COMING UP HERE! THESE NIGGAZ MIGHT NOT GET MARRIED BUT THATS THEIR AZZ NOT MINE! SO WHAT! THIS IS NEW YORK AND NEW JERSEY WE MOVE TOO FAST TO GET HITCHED AND PARTY ALL OVER THE WORLD NO NEED AND BABY IN THE UPPER COMMENT SAID IT THE BEST ABOUT THEM NIGGAZ OLD AND TI YOUNG THEY SHOULDNT BE WORRIED ABOUT THAT RIGHT NOW ! YO
February 11th, 2008 at 9:05 pm
T.I. is so sexy its to bad his girl Tiny is ugly as hell